Monday, Apr 06, 2020

New York, NY

How to Stop Being an Asshole Without Losing Self-Respect

How to stop being an asshole. If you have any hope of being a real man, nothing in this post will offend you irreparably. Meaning, suck it up. You need to hear this and you know it. I do not apologize for being the messenger. It’s a privilege that I am honored to fulfill.  Are you ready to learn how […]

I Shouldn’t Feel Like Killing Myself

Why would I want to kill myself? I mean, I should be so happy! So full of self-esteem. I have a great life and, honestly, nothing is wrong. I should be fine.  But I’m not. I feeling like killing myself. Why?  And then I got some sage insight from a mentor, who said something like the following.  None of us […]

Beware These 10 Signs of Emotional Masochism

Disclaimer: By publishing this post, I dare not imply that psychological masochism is a conscious choice. I also don’t claim it is anybody’s fault. Emotional masochism could be a part of human character with roots that predate the normal person’s conscious awareness. In my experience, growing conscious of emotionally masochistic tendencies for what they are is a rare occurrence, despite […]

10 Things to Say to Yourself When You Make Mistakes

Making mistakes is fascinating. Is there another issue that is so common and normal yet loathsome to most people? The average person struggles through life trying to get the most out of each day. In spite of goal-setting efforts and positive morning rituals, all of us make mistakes and fall short of our best intention from time to me. We […]

Bizarre Reason You Always Want What You Can’t Have

You want what you can’t have because it feels bad. To people like us, sometimes feeling bad feels good. It’s that simple. You secretly love perpetually wanting what you can’t have because the self-deprivation is pleasurable in some subtle, emotionally twisted way. Now, you may not know what you really want out of life but getting that daily hit of […]